Hi! thanks for your response!
I’m sorry you’re having a bad week- Hang in there!!
As for difficult doctors; I was really lucky; I had self diagnosed myself and my doctor knew about Dercums!! He agreed and referred me to a specialist who had participated in a Dercums conference here in Toronto last year. So the time between my self diagnosis and finding the right specialist was two weeks only!
I have not had to battle the system for recognition and thanks to our universal healthcare system in Canada I have access to which ever specialist or research facility necessary.
I have also been “lucky” in other ways; because I suffered from Fibromyalgia for 15 years I have develloped a very high tollerance for pain.
I beat the Fibro by creating my own special no carb diet and was painfree for 3 years so I know how to deal with a chonic condition in a positive way.
I learned that if I shift my focuss I can turn seemingly negatives into positives. Instead of just coping I’m an active participant in my condition.
For instance; I’m a single woman; if I focuss on the negative I could complain that I have no support and probably feel lonely and then get depressed. Instead I choose to see how wonderful it is that I have nobody dependant on me; that I’m free to sleep and eat when I choose; if I want to spend all day on the couch watching the TV then I can!! I’m grateful I don’t have to flinch at a loved one’s touch and all the emotional conflicts that come from having to deal with other people’s involvement with a chonic condition.
I also have learned to like my own company- I’m interesting to be with!!; I like my own thoughts and imagination and most of all my sense of humour; I litterally find myself laughing outloud often because of the absurdity of this condition’s manifestations (yesterday I couldn’t get my shoes on- you should have seen my antics- move over Laurel & Hardy!) and again because there’s nobody else here I don’t get hauled off in straight jacket for my behaviour!
My main frustration right now is finding practical info on GH for instance but I suppose that’s just because of my impatient nature and I should instead commit myself to researching it for a long period before jumping to conclusions eh?
I would also like to find a chat board- one where it’s easy to follow and participate in a “thread”- so one can see who’s reacting to what and whom easily… this one on one just isn’t as informative. Maybe I should just start a threaded chatboard myself?
Well that was enough babbel on my part; I hope you can find the means to “when life hands you lemons” make lemonade!!!
All the best!
Yente