My inability to say no

Am I alone in thinking that to be an alcoholic you need to have a drink every day,If so why do I not drink all the time,but when I do I cant stop until I fall down,and cant remember the next day what I have said or done.It probably only happens once a month,but is so destructive to my relationship that I am in danger of loosing the two things in life that really matter to me.I need to find out if anybody else has problems like this and if so how I can go about overcoming them and having a normal life.thanks in advance to you yours JP

albatross, not everyone is an every day drinker… it’s what happens when they do drink… now, i am going to paste 20 questions on here in a few that i want you to answer(not on the board… just to yourself)