since we had the baby,8 weeks ago my husband and i have been fighting and i havent wanted sex since about the 4th month of pregnancy
Is this your first baby? Having a child is a huge change for couples… the profound sense of responsibilty, the lack of sleep, complete disruption to your lives, financial pressures, the hormonal changes etc etc. Its a super difficult time and normal to be arguing more as you are both trying to adjust to a major life change. You should discuss your feelings with your husband and ask how he is coping as well…if you have the family support or a friend available, get a couple of hours away from bubs and do something relaxing together. If your depressed feelings persist, talk to your family doctor.
But remember to be kind to yourself…you have just brought a new life into the world and thats a huge thing that is going to impact the rest of your life!