Quick Advice for getting rid of N

Narcissistic personality disorder
#21

Dude, thanks for picking up on that detail.

It’s fascinating how we let things slip that really tell the whole story.

I just want this needy, controlling axole to go away, and I’d prefer that he do it on his own.

Words of Wisdom from the Midwest of USA:

It’s like dealing with house ants. They come out of nowhere in the millions, but if you spray them you have to clean up their dead little bodies.

But if you just pick up the sugar bowl and put it in the refrigerator, they go away on their own with no need for cleanup.

nickinstant npd-cpt6637@lists.careplace.com wrote: i note the words “trying to get rid of” JUST DO IT!

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#22

Mercenary,

I trust you know what will work and what wont given who your opponent is.

I only responded according to how I do things, and youve probably seen enough of that on this forum to get a good idea about that.

I have no problem with you picking and choosing what seems more appropriate for you.

Good luck. It sounds like it’ll be quite an uncomfortable moment to nabigate.

And by the way, I actually do believe people when they say theyre sorry my feelings got hurt. Well, when I say it I mean it anyway.

let us know how it goes.

#23

oops
my response came too slow

Mercenary, it sounds like you know exactly what to do already!

go for it!

#24

Mercenary,

C’mon, YOU KNOW axholes have not, do not and never will “go away on their own”.

It’s like ants, or rats…once you got 'em, you are stuck with 'em till YOU get rid of them…

I can go check the label on the stuff that got rid of last year’s rat if you think it will help?

:o)

Unless you can sic him with a raging nympho bunny boiler who looks like a porn star, you are going to have to bite the bullet and give him the HARD WORD.

GD

#25

What do you all think if I publicly suggest he has a crush on me?

(We’re both guys, 40, and single.)

I can point to several things he has done that, with the right spin, are proof positive he is infatuated with me.

(For example, urging me to stay later than planned, seeking me out for private conversations, taking interest in my work, telling me he is worried about me when I don’t return his calls - that sort of thing.)

Secretly I’d love to humiliate him in front of mutual friends (all of whom are tired of him too) by giving him the “Dude, I respect your feelings, but they are DEFINITELY not returned” talk, you know, lettin’ him down easy.

Would that count as “Frightening the Narcissist”?

#26

You mean the half-dozen or so links about children and domestic violence shelters were red herrings to see if I was paying attention?

What the hell is your problem?

samvaknin npd-cpt6637@lists.careplace.com wrote: I am delighted that you can tell which links are actually relevant to you and your particular situation. That’s the way to go! I wish everyone were the same! Sam

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#27

Blitz, thanks for the laugh - but he and I are both guys.

I know what you mean about diplomacy backfiring.

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#28

Yeah, I needed the input from the community to help me think it through. I don’t think well on my feet.

Plus, as a math teacher, I overwhelm myself with alternate proofs.

thephoenix101 npd-cpt6637@lists.careplace.com wrote: Mercenary, it sounds like you know exactly what to do already! go for it!

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#29

OOOOOOOOOWWWWW!!!

Well I can see how that MIGHT rule out b)??? Or at any rate make it VERY tricky…

So guess the pornstar might not work either?

I’ll go read the label on that stuff from last year and get back to you…

nodding vigorously

GD

PS…SA-AM…you weren’t flirting with Mercenary by any chance? Because if you were, c’here to me for I have something I must tell you…

#30

His name was Baron, and he was half german shepherd, half husky, and fully intact. Never had rats. Or mice. Or deer, rabbits, opossums, groundhogs, Jehovah’s Witnesses, or chipmunks.

blitzen npd-cpt6637@lists.careplace.com wrote: I can go check the label on the stuff that got rid of last year’s rat if you think it will help?

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