We’ve lived with the diagnosis for a year now. I was as flipped out as you are now then. We’ve had a really good 10 months with no pain and just a slight limp. There are days where I completely forget that he has Perthes. What you are going to find is that there are as many opinions about care and surgery as there are doctors and parents out there. The one sure thing about Perthes is that is nothing sure. A doctor can’t look at an x-ray and tell anything about the child’s quality of life - my doctor told us he’s seen x-rays that look relatively normal and the child is in excruciating pain and then there are kids like my son who’s x-ray show most of the head completely gone now and he’s pain free. My doctor has basically said that we can allow Nate’s body to determine what he can do. We don’t let him jump on trampolines, but we don’t restrict him very much either. When it comes right down to it - the studies out there really can’t prove one way or the other that any one treatment has better results than another. You can find very sound arguments for every side of every argument out there. My son is now 8 1/2, but his bone age is only 4-6 so we are still waiting it out to give his body time to grow new bone. All I can really tell you is that you have to find a doctor that you trust and then you have to trust your own instincts as well. It’s a one day at a time thing - as many good days as we’ve had, I know that in a heartbeat that could change and he could be back in complete lock-up and pain. I don’t let myself read the forums very often because it gets very depressing. I think that if you are one of the parents who has a child that is on the really bad side of things, then the support is great, but if your child is not there, then it’s just a very scary thing. Know that it can go there, but then focus on where you are and don’t borrow trouble. Best of luck to your family.