So the relationship is over,i have said goodbye,i understand what i have been through,i am now open to a healthy loving man who is deserving of me.Come to find out that the N has been saying ugly things about me,i am established in my community,i am well respected and liked.The N is also a part of the community,and he is charming as many as he can.Networking and making as many contacts as he can.I saw him today at a gathering,i did not make eye contact as i was talking to someone.However,he walked by exhibiting the haughty body language N`s sometimes have.Twenty minutes later i go out to get coffee,and as i am walking back i spot him in the distance looking at me as he sits waiting for who knows what,so i continued walking like i did not see him,and boy, did i look good;in high heels i steped like a Parisian model during fashion week.
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You’re not faking it girl! Take care of you! You are the most important thing. You chose yourself over NPD you’re already a success! We all know how hard it is to break up and keep it movin!
You GO GIRL!!! While none of us are the vindictive b*****ds they are, a little revenge can go a long way to heal. What do they say? “The best revenge is success”!
I agree…nothing better than proving you are just fine and dandy and happy WITHOUT them… even if you dont feel it inside !
That`s it Lonelyplace,fake it until you make it.
Martin Luther said, “The Devil, that proud sprite, cannot abide being mocked.” And neither can narcissists, as it turns out. Happily turning your attention elsewhere in fron of him cuts him off, and soon he’ll take an easy road to easier times. Good for you!
T