Jesus Christ, narcissist

Narcissistic personality disorder
#66

Blixen, where have you been. You are very perceptive, very right. I think Sam’s writing is actually pretty bad, which was my first give away to him. He does have a very interesting thought process for what that is worth. Very interesting.

Sam’s writing is pathetically organized - actually more rambling and he contradicts himself. His certainly would not and has not been published in any respectable professional journal. Nor has he ever been quoted by respectable professionals despite his claims. Nor does he quote anyone. And to those who do not follow me, it is to say, he is an expert to you by his claim, but not within the psychological profession and certainly, far from the medical profession.

Anybody can write a book and anybody can say anything. It does not cost much to get one published. Than you sell it by marketing it. Grocery stores and the internet are great places for what Blixen calls, pseudopsychology.

I am impressed at your perception and ability to express how he takes advantage of people who are in distress. Much better than mine.

#67

Oh thank you,

But I am not so perceptive, I just had all the time in the world to learn it all…the hard way.

I think Sam has pretty much had his day now, all but the shouting. He has been “yesterday’s news” for a long time, and the internet is changing.

I think, in '98 when he first showed up, the internet was just getting popular, and people were apt to be overwhelmed by such easy access to so much information that they didn’t really know HOW to be discerning, I was no exception myself in many ways, I just didn’t buy into Sam is all.

These days people have learned to be less easily impressed and far more selective.

GD

#68

Oh goodness gracious Sam… are you THAT bored?

Perhaps I should send you a few weeks worth of dictation that you could mindlessly transcribe for me, as I am not nearly as bored as you seem to be.

You and I have had some discussions off the board and I must say, if you want a public cudo from me next time, give me a message that will deserve it. No, I’m not attacking the messenger but indeed, the message.

Yes, dear, you knew when you wrote it… and that IS the point. You ALWAYS know…and it gives you “something to do” and then somewhere in the middle of the flames, you jump in and say “Ah, come on…can’t we all get along…lighten up people…” Sam, you don’t want the banter going in a direction other than the one you intend. If it does, you want everyone to just “chill” (so that YOU can get control again). Well, pull up your BIG GIRL panties and get over it Sam. You cannot control everything.

In example, Mamolie can HUG YOU anytime she feels like it. YOU cannot stop it. You could block her perhaps but that does not prevent her or Blitzen or anyone from posting in public forum (like this one) how much they Love you and wish you the best and from sending you the worlds ::::::::::::::::BIGGEST HUG:::::::::::::::::: anytime they feel like it. Come on’ you KNOW you love it. You love the attention. You love to be loved. You NEED to be loved. You probably have a favorite Teddy Bear too. You’re a softie… admit it… I’ve seen it… You DO have empathy. Oh my… did I let that out?? OOOOPS!! Well, that WAS between us… but you know, I think that you WANT others to know. I think that you NEED them to know. You’re trying so hard, you’re screaming and no one is hearing. You want to mend your ways. You want to have meaningful, fulfilling relationships. You NEED friends and you have come to the RIGHT PLACE.

This place, Careplace, is THE place for you. We’re here for you Sam. We are here for everyone. You do not need to feel left out anymore. You are part of our family. You are our brother. We just want you to know that we know the truth now Sam. It’s okay. We know how hard you’ve had to try to bury the secrets, the yearnings to “belong” and now, you have come home.

And Sam…

THIS ::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::HUG:::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::: is for you!!!

P.S.
Are you humored??? Cause I sure am!!! (LAUGHING A LOT!!!) …and YES, I’m BORED!!!..guess I’ll get back to work. (STILL LAUGHING…A LOT)

#69

I WAS KIDDING!!!
!!!

I am done here… I have found my friends in Hope and Mamolie…

Good luck to you both and thank you so much for your incredible support… It has been invaluable to me… Best of luck in your future lives…

#70

Sorry BUP…

I can only plead that I have seen people post far crazier things around Sam and MEAN EVERY WORD, then go on to build websites and support groups around them!

I am totally relieved you were kidding…

GD

#71

How do you know that? Because you have been told so?

Did you read my essay?

Does it contain errors?

If you haven’t read it, how can you pass judgment?

Sam

#72

I Love to be Hated - The Masochistic Narcissist

http://samvak.tripod.com/narcissistmasochist.html

Grandiosity and Intimacy - The Roots of Paranoia

http://samvak.tripod.com/journal60.html

You see, none of you can come up with a single new insight (sad).

After 11 years, it’s all in my work.

Sam

#73

The Narcissist’s Self Defeating and Self Destructive Behaviours

http://samvak.tripod.com/faq69.html

The Masochistic Patient - A Case Study

http://samvak.tripod.com/personalitydisorders58.html

Masochistic Personality Disorder

http://samvak.tripod.com/personalitydisorders32.html

The Delusional Way Out - The narcissist reacts to deficient narcissistic
supply by becoming schizoid, masochistic, paranoid, or delusional

http://samvak.tripod.com/journal42.html

#74

(laughing) How very UNperceptive of you… Still, judging by YOUR writing
below, it is not surprising that you wouldn’t know the difference between
rambling and ranting and good writing … :o))

Actually, I am a professional writer. That’s what I do for a (very good)
living. That’s what I have been doing for a living in the last 31 years.

Enjoy!

Here is a partial list of my non-narcissism work:

United Press International (UPI) Articles Archive

http://ceeandbalkan.tripod.com/briefs.html

Associate Editor, Global Politician and Founding Analyst, International
Analyst Network

http://www.globalpolitician.com/search.asp?keyword=Vaknin

http://www.analyst-network.com/profile.php?user_id=79

Chronicle Media Group and Conservative Voice Author Archives

http://www.americanchronicle.com/articles/viewByAuthor.asp?authorID=941

http://www.theconservativevoice.com/profile/2832/Sam-Vaknin.html

Issues in the economics and politics of economies in transition

http://ceeandbalkan.tripod.com/

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/conflictransition

Author Archive of Political Columns in “Central Europe Review”

http://www.ce-review.org/authorarchives/vaknin_archive/vaknin_main.html

#75

Umm…reviewing my post… I don’t find one sentence that says Sam is not a good writer. How UNperceptive of you Sam. You shouldn’t spend so much time analyzing my boredom. It doesn’t work well for you. It seems to confuse you, so I’ll steer you back to the actual topic… YOU ARE LOVED Sam!!! and you WANT to be and you WANT to reciprocate…it’s okay…again, we’re here for you. You are our brother, our family, in this world we all share.

::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::HUGS AND HUGS:::::::::::::::::::::::::

Dawn :slight_smile:

#76

Dawn, Dawn,

I wasn’t responding to you at all!

The delusion that everything revolves around you is called narcissism:

Only a qualified mental health diagnostician can determine whether someone
suffers from Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) and this, following
lengthy tests and personal interviews. Click on these links to learn more:

http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/1.html

http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/narcissismglance.html

http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/npdglance.html

http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/faq82.html

http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/faqpd.html

I wish you complete healing (wink).

Sam

#77

Here is a “new insight” for you…

There never has been any such thing as “Masochistic Personality Disorder”, it was considered for inclusion in DSM III and finally rejected, and you know that as well as I do, but that knowledge doesn’t stop you asserting otherwise…

Just like all the other, more subtle misinformation you get off on ramming down people’s throats…

Not because they are less clever than you, but rather because, as you well know, there is absolutely NO REASON WHY they should know any better about and obscure personality disorder.

Let me give you ANOTHER “new insight” as a special bonus.

According to “The Times” (and the London Times is hardly wrong), your wife (you know, the tiny dark haired woman who lives in the house - you can’t miss her, go back and look again), would like to have a baby…now fair enough, that is a decision that should only, rightly, be made when BOTH partners are comfortable with it…

…but don’t you think it is a long way beyond cruel to go on posting the link that begins “no woman has ever wanted a child with me” all over the internet, for YEARS under those circumstances?

GD

#78

Come on Sam,I clearly remember you saying that,Quote"I have seen evil,and it is i"
We all know that Jesus was not evil.You have now compromised your integrity.

#79

Healed one…

I feel at this point, just to avoid any misunderstandings, I should stress that we DO also know that Sam knows PERFECTLY WELL he isn’t Jesus…

Doesn’t he?

GD

#80

You wrote:

“I clearly remember you saying that,Quote"I have seen evil,and it is i”

Sam:

What you clearly remember is not very reliable now, is it?

What I wrote is this:

“I have seen the enemy and it I.”

And what does INTEGRITY have to do with anything?

Advice:

Look the word “integrity” up the dictionary, don’t rely on what you clearly
remember about its meaning.

#81

ROFLMAO!!! Sam, once again, you’ve made me smile…you’re such a dear!!! In fact, all of today’s posts have made me smile and laugh (A LOT). I’m so glad we can step back a bit, lower the shields and just enjoy our diversity and laugh with (yes, with) each other. Laughter is good for the soul…and other parts too!!! A baby??? Hmmm…curiouser and curiouser… DO tell!!! As for your response at not responding to me…okay…fine… don’t ::::::::::::::::HUG::::::::::::::::::: me back. It’s okay, I still LOVE YOU!!! (wink)

Dawn :slight_smile:

#82

Sorry,

I missed that myself.

I think we can also safely consider the fact that Sam Vaknin has not had a shred of integrity in his whole adult life, and is fully aware and quite proud of that fact, to ALSO fall under “common knowledge”.

GD

#83

The Serious Narcissist

http://samvak.tripod.com/faq52.html

The Self-Deprecating Narcissist

http://samvak.tripod.com/journal39.html

The Narcissist’s False Modesty

http://samvak.tripod.com/faq36.html

#84

what does the last half of this mean?

ROFLMAO!!!

The MAO part is what I don’t know. eek… I am out of it!

#85

Hope, it means Rolling On Floor, Laughing My Arse Off. :smiley: :smiley:

Dawn :slight_smile: