Only a qulified professional can diagnose NPD

Narcissistic personality disorder
#81

(Who the FECK is btdt100???)

Nickinstant

Unpleasant though it may be there really is no way to avoid being led up the garden path without challenging misinformation and claims that contradict the available evidence.

Believe it or not, it is very BAD for people to be lead up the garden path online by people claiming to be caring and supportive of them.

Susiejo:

This pretty much sums it up:

All who have experienced it can identify with the feelings but it is misleading to call it NPD and then add in a host of other aspects…

…
The issue is not about validating feelings. The issues have been about the misuse and abuse of NPD in that process, and the exploitation by Sam and others who have ulterior motives in misguiding – i.e. selling books, saving people, controlling, etc.

And there was a heck of a lot of analysis as to why those “Ns” do what they do such as obtaining “narcissistic supply”. What is this based on? Sam Varkin and that’s it.

I can never help seeing a parallel between those who support the cult of onlineNPD and those poor children who once being sexually abused become so twisted themselves that they go on to “groom” other children for their abuser…

GD

#82

nickinstant

The conflict on this board started when Sam posted his Jesus was a Narcissist, to which many took offense and the criticism of him started. And that included Mamolie herself.

I was not posting much at all until then - not into the mob mentality nor any desire to view myself as a poor victim. I do not believe Blitxen was posting either. Stepping in to critisize Sam, the attacks were made back by his sockpuppets (the phoneys on the board).

Then in confrontations to him and his sockpuppets, others join their rescue and attack back.

So the game goes on. The abuser becomes the victim, the victims become the abusers, and everyone can flip when so motivated to save everyone else. And when all is said and done, there is nothing but a bunch of neurotic messes.

So hey, take it back to step 1 and play it all over again. It will end exactly the same.

#83

wher i come from some folk her wid get told to shut yer puss and get a glesgy kiss!

anyways, am off to a party, have fun.

Friends, i know who you are and i thank you for bein there.

big love and happy saturday night.

xx

#84

You should be spanked for such a horrible analogy. Shame on you.

thephoenix101 npd-cpt6680@lists.careplace.com wrote: Its very difficult to “hear the waves” when theres so much “seal clubbing” going on isnt it?

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#85

I’m here to validate feelings. Any body need their feelings validated?

Oh and by the way, in this last week when I felt really horrible, and some kind hearts validated my feelings, that was very helpful, thank you. Its so good to be able to sit comfortably with them instead of battling internally with them.

OK, so who wants their feelings validated?

I’m serious.

I didnt come here for intellectual debate (I grew past that stage in my university days).

#86

me me me , lol , pheonix, i love you

xx

#87

Hey nickinstant!!!

you go take your funky bootie-smackin self and you go to that party and you knock somebodys socks off, or at the very least, flirt and dance your brains out.

I want a report tomorrow morning :slight_smile:

#88

phoenix - it appears that you may have thought my last post was directed at you - at absolutely was not. I hope that I didn’t upset you.

Also, I wasn’t making a direct reference to specific unanswered posts - just the apparent shift in the “reason” for some of the posts. It seems that this place is being used as a dumping ground for some angry souls and it frustrates me that the entire calm, supportive and nurturing nature of the board is no longer the same. I just wish that some people here could be more tolerant of other’s viewpoints.

Again, my apologies - hopefully, no bad feelings…

#89

Angie, c’mere (Grabbing you by the shoulder and pulling you close)

I’m not offended by much of anything that goes on here anymore.

I promise though if I ever am I’ll let you know.

I thought what you posted was worthwhile, and I didnt want anyone’s questions to get left behind or buried in the “mud”. Its so easy to do inadvertently.

I like that you call out those things, and I hope you’ll do it again if that happens.

#90

Mercenary wrote:You should be spanked for such a horrible analogy. Shame on you.thephoenix101 wrote: Its very difficult to "hear the waves" when theres so much "seal clubbing" going on isnt it?

 

what can I say?  I have the mind of an artist, which exlains why many of my posts are too wordy for you.  Words are my 2nd language and they are ALWAYS woefully inadequate especially with my overly rich fantasy life.  Waves and seal clubbers...its the least of my imagery problems!    ha!

 

#91

I’ll bet Blitzen is fat, ugly, single, and has more than one cat.

blitzen npd-cpt6680@lists.careplace.com wrote: Whine whine whine

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#92

If it looks like a duck, and walks like a duck, and quacks like a duck…then it is a duck! Plain and simple!

#93

Mariel Lee said:

If it looks like a duck, and walks like a duck, and quacks like a duck…then it is a duck! Plain and simple!

And by the same token when it doesn’t actually look like a duck, and walk like a duck, and quack like a duck…at least as far as you know because you only have a very distorted grasp of what a duck is at best, then you probably shouldn’t call it a duck.

GD

#94

She is an erotomaniac stalker - has been chasing me around for 11 years now.
Sick to the core.

Read this:

The Erotomaniac - Coping with Various Types of Stalkers

http://samvak.tripod.com/abusefamily18.html

Sam

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From: “nickinstant” npd-cpt6680@lists.careplace.com
To: palma@unet.com.mk
Sent: Saturday, November 10, 2007 9:38 PM
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#95

I am sorry Sam,

But I really do not see the relevance of that statement to the fact that you are only here to exploit people.

Why have you consistently spent 9 years publicly misrepresenting people you know to be, predatory, unscrupulous and manifest all the attributes that YOU call “Malignant Narcissism” as providing valid sources of support and healing?

GD

#96

blitzen,
Same point different day.

WE HEAR YOU.
WE HEAR YOUWE HEAR YOUWE HEAR YOU WE HEAR YOU WE HEAR YOU WE HEAR YOU WE HEAR YOU WE HEAR YOU WE HEAR YOU WE HEAR YOU.

Give us a break.

#97

She can’t help herself. She is obsessive-compulsive. She is a stalker, so
she is stalking this list.

The ONLY way to effectively cope with her is to ignore her completely. She
is using numerous aliases (susiejo, Zeraeph, Cricket’s Courage, Teri,
Teresa, Blitzen, Mechanima, Gaye Dalton, Invicta, and others).

To better understand her psychopathology, read these:

http://samvak.tripod.master.com/texis/master/search/?q=compulsive

http://samvak.tripod.com/abuse18.html

Sam

----- Original Message -----
From: “nickinstant” npd-cpt6680@lists.careplace.com
To: palma@unet.com.mk
Sent: Sunday, November 11, 2007 2:10 PM
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#98

Nickinstant - bravo! I propose that WE NOT HEAR, WE NOT HEAR, WE NOT HEAR, WE NOT HEAR, WE NOT HEAR blitzen anymore…WE have to stop the madness - she can’t - she’s mad…

#99

thanks, if i gave a shit i would.

#100

(laughing)

You sure have a way with them words, Nick, ma’man!

Some Faknin

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