Sorry they are boring PrimaDonna. Please stimulate the conversation.
No need to apologize, just do something different....authentically.
So Trisha, Interesting what you find boring. Clearly established that youI am much prefer conflict and pitting people against each other. So what is it? Emotional thrill or intellectual thrill? I am sincerely curious.
start doing something different
this is so boring Gaye, seriously…same old game, just a different day
be creative for a change
I just looked on the Yale Necrology website. My uncle who shot
himself, shot himself a month
before my brother was born Feb 7 1961. My brother was born March
16th, 1961. That must have been harsh for my N dad and especially
challenging for my mom…I am sad that they didn’t talk about it.
It would have helped if they did. I think this is really what sent
him into lalaland. And his best friend died July 19th, 1990. My mom
died July 19th, 1997. It is sad when you put the pieces of the
puzzle together…Ugh…But I can’t take the wrath for all
of this pain. I just can’t. It is not fair to me…He should
have just put his ass in therapy…It
is not fair to use innocent people as dumping grounds and all people
should know that…
On Dec 18, 2007, at 9:31 PM, PrimaDonna wrote:
Well Trish, since you are bored and we cannot provide stimuulation, why don’t you take charge and make it interesting. Just spare us the “I’m a flower child seeking love and beauty on the planet Mars” which is obviously boring on your own board as well.
I believe I challenged you to be creative first. Besides, I’ve been doing so many different things on this and the other boards already, I dont think I need to prove anything anymore.
But prove me wrong, go ahead, you go first.
Trish, It is not about proving anything. It is about providing a thread of conversation that is meaningful and gets responses. You find the ones here boring so offer one that is intriguing.
No Trish, the question is whether I am stupid enough to suck into your game to get me to expose myself in some kind of way so you can increase your manipulative power and further play your sick game.
I really am not that stupid and know that it is you who lives within the emotional vacuum of normal good feelings, but rather derives them from sadism.
only more of the same huh?
maybe next week then.
A good thread for conversation and sharing Primadonna? Today, tomorrow, or next week. Doesn’t matter. You are most welcome to redirect this board from petty attacks on each other and turn it to constructive conversation. I’ll even support you in that if you can do it.
I think I read somewhere that the best indicator of someone’s future behaviour is their past behaviour…and since I’ve seen you create shit where there was none when people start threads (and you may notice, just about everyone - except you and Sam - dont start any anymore for, I would guess, precisely this reason) I wont likely be starting any for awhile.
Your bullying and verbal abuse is habitual.
And as I’ve seen just in your last few posts, you refuse to do anything different…still saying the same old thing.
And its boring…
its b o r i n g
what we’re doing right now is
b o r i n g
I HATE TO AGREE WITH SUSIEJO, BUT CORE STRENGTH IN YOURSELF IS THE
BEST WAY TO GET
UP AND BRUSH YOURSELF OFF…LIKE IN YOGA…IF YOU HAVE A WEAK
GUT (WHICH UNFORTUNATELY I DO, YOUR BACK IS GOING TO BREAK FROM SOME
OF THE POSITIONS)…IT ALL COMES FROM THE CORE…
AND YOU ARE ALLOWED TO BE MEAN BACK. PEOPLE ARE
MEAN, YOU ARE ALLOWED TO BE MEAN BACK TO MEAN PEOPLE. 39 YEARS FOLKS,
39 YEARS THIS TOOK ME. I CAN’T WAIT UNTIL SOMEONE IS MEAN TO ME IN
THE REAL WORLD, I AM GOING TO GIVE RIGHT BACK TO THEM. I AM SO SICK
OF BEING A VICTIM. THAT NEXT RED FLAG MOMENT THAT FLAG IS GOING TO
BE TAKEN DOWN AND RIPPED UP ON THE SPOT…AND I WILL SPIT ON
IT…
On Dec 18, 2007, at 12:04 AM, susiejo wrote:
bump (please dont respond anyone)
Can you share with us what is the problem?
Sam
----- Original Message -----
From: “PrimaDonna” npd-cpt7174@lists.careplace.com
To: palma@unet.com.mk
Sent: Saturday, December 22, 2007 2:49 PM
Subject: Re: [npd] RECOVERY FROM LIVING WITH A NARCISSISTS
The vast majority of members here are either feeble-minded non-entities like bup and nic or raging narcissistic psychopaths like Gaye or stealth narcissists like Phoenix/PrimaDonna (what an apt choice of nickname). This forum is toxic and will continue to poison all of you. At least I hope so. You deserve no better. I fully sympathize with your abusers. You had it all coming to you and more.
Sam
I have a problem with this! Don't think I have miss read it, it is abuse, plain and clear to me, and there is no excuse or link you could add to explain how this is helpful or make it ok. It is not ok. There is no excuse for abuse, period, especially on a forum of people trying to recover from abuse! mamolie
You started abusing ME long before I began to reciprocate. YOU are the
abusers and victimizers. Your husbands and wives are the VICTIMS.
Allow me to repeat myself loud and clear:
I fully sympathize with your “abusers”. You had it all coming to you and
more. If you treated them the way you treated me here, you deserve
everything they did to you and MUCH MORE besides.
Sam
----- Original Message -----
From: “mamolie” npd-cpt7174@lists.careplace.com
To: palma@unet.com.mk
Sent: Saturday, December 22, 2007 5:43 PM
Subject: Re: [npd] RECOVERY FROM LIVING WITH A NARCISSISTS
mamolie, On this I have to defend Sam. I don’t think it is a matter of you misreading. Rather it is pulling one post out of context from others. Go back and get the posts he was responding to and include ALL abusers or let that thread be please.
Mamolie,
What Susiejo says is absolutely true. Sam asked Trisha a perfectly civil and obvious question about why she pulled these old threads up, which IS confusing, because, read through, they seem to show Trisha in a worse light than anyone else.
Sam,
You can exempt me from this sort of statement:
You started abusing ME long before I began to reciprocate.
…on the grounds that you were running a “whispering campaign” inciting people like ELanger to public abuses that were tailored to hit all my triggers at once, and cause me maximum distress this time in 1998, before I had ever said one single unkind word to or about you. (forget it, I have seen your emails).
GD
Mamolie,
and everyone else
please DO NOT respond to any of these posts. As Mamolie stated at the beginning of this thread, This is no longer a CarePlace forum, its an abuse forum. You cannot say anything that will garner much of anything from these 3 that is not a personal attack, verbal abuse or bullying.
I have hope the admin will take care of this problem shortly. Thats what was promised to me. Its all we can do to wait…or to leave if the change is not forthcoming.
Do not respond to them, they ONLY want to continue a fight…and frankly, we all have warmth, love and family to tend to over the next few days.
peace be with you Mamolie et al.
Trisha, many of those posts were reported at the time they were sent.