Trisha,
There was me thinking uo had honestly had a change of heart and were asking for all your goading, baiting and gameplaying and any response related to it, that dominate these threads, to be deleted, so we could all make a fresh start over Christmas, but I was wrong…
You just wanted to make more trouble, as usual.
There you go.
GD
Phoenix/PrimaDonna, the “therapist”,
I will never forget how you refused to admit that bup calling me "a psycho"
UNprovoked was abusive conduct. You evaded my repeated questions in a
hundred different ways. You couldn’t force yourself to come out and say:
“Sam, bup was wrong to call you names, out of the blue, unprovoked by you”.
Conclusion:
To abuse me is OK.
For me to REACT to your abuse is not OK.
You are all contaminated. Your spouses and partners infected you with
narcissism. You are the living dead. You have become your own worst
nightmare: a narcissistic abuser. You are not victims anymore: you are
abusers now and deserve the worst. And you will go on abusing everyone
around you, even if you don’t mean to. Your relationships are doomed and you
are doomed.
Sam
----- Original Message -----
From: “PrimaDonna” npd-cpt7174@lists.careplace.com
To: palma@unet.com.mk
Sent: Saturday, December 22, 2007 6:16 PM
Subject: Re: [npd] RECOVERY FROM LIVING WITH A NARCISSISTS
Is it necessary to bump conflict ridden threads in such a cryptic and vague way? If you have business with admins can you keep it in private messages?
I don’t participate often at all, I don’t see why these threads deserve more attention than the active one I was participating in. I don’t cause conflict with anybody, and I’m not mean. I was participating in a thread that had no conflict, was on the topic of NPD, and was actually healthy.
You can’t bring something up in public and expect nobody to respond to it. I don’t have a problem with anybody here, but I don’t like to my response bumped and buried three topics down for ‘admin’ business.
You are all contaminated. Your spouses and partners infected you with
narcissism. You are the living dead. You have become your own worst
nightmare: a narcissistic abuser. You are not victims anymore: you are
abusers now and deserve the worst. And you will go on abusing everyone
around you, even if you don’t mean to. Your relationships are doomed and you
are doomed.
Aw shucks Sam…I bet you say that to ALL the girls?
blushes
Are you, Schmuel Vaknin, the omnipotent and omnipresent seriously the only person here who is too dumb to resist the bait?
C’mon, wouldn’t you rather post some nice links on Alexithymia here:
http://www.careplace.com/forum/topic/7180?fs=
Let’s not have all the cr*p revived and rehashed.
GD
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1 hour ago, samvaknin wrote:
Phoenix/PrimaDonna, the “therapist”,
I will never forget how you refused to admit that bup calling me "a psycho"
UNprovoked was abusive conduct. You evaded my repeated questions in a
Sam I have to agree with you on this post too except for one point. I am not so sure that is appropriate to assume that their spouses and partners are the ones who infected them. It may well be vice versa.