Victim Mentality

Phoenix wrote to Susiejo:

and for people who purport to know with some confidence about psychology, actually putting it into practice, NOT cutting and pasting paragraphs from Wikipedia every single day in order to discount, devalue and dehumanize survivors of abusive N relationships.

And so I say again, try it, you might like it.

Phoenix,

Are you talking about me or yourself regarding psychology, and the discounting, devaluing and dehumanizing of others, including survivors of N relationships such as Blitxen and myself?

Why don’t you apply your own advice to yourself?

Sam got banned from Wikipedia for using multiple identities to try and create a false consensus to force the community of Wikipedia to accept cut and pastes of his articles, and links to his articles and supporters in lieu of accurate information on several topics (though I doubt if the fact that he publicly threatened Jimbo Wales with a non-specific “class action” if he did not let him have ALL HIS OWN WAY, helped too much?).

See:

The articles has to be rewritten, I had assumed that some of Sam’s writing could be used or incorporated (for convenience, though not the linkspam!), but when I tried to cite any of it to what Wikipedia calls “reliable sources”: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/WP:RS
(Sam does not qualify to say the least) I found, to my absolute horror, that Sam’s statements did not check out with the sources he attributed them to.

Understand, I have never believed in Sam, and always been privy to the fact that Sam doesn’t believe in what he is doing himself and is very cynical about it. But, on a more personal level I had always seen reason to believe that Sam had too great a fascination with information to baldly misrepresent it.

I found out differently, the day I began to rebuild the NPD related articles from, cited, reliable sources without misinformation. I had a lot of help from a couple of qualified shrinks (who preferred to avoid Sam and his supporters retaliating with their customary mudslinging by remaining anonymous) to rebuild them in a hurry, but, at this stage (nearly 2 years later), the articles have been refined and overwritten by many other editors, and have little or nothing to do with me, nothing at all to do with Sam, and a lot to do with real, verified information.
GD
(I had little or nothing to do with the Asperger Syndrome article on Wikipedia? Where does that keep coming from?)

Susiejo said:


Do you consider living on the internet day in and day out as real human contact?


HELL YES!!

…and as a Schizoid Aspie I consider it to be in the “way too touchy/feely” range too.

shudders

:o)

GD

Susiejo

try and stick to the subject LOL

It gives a person credibility when they DONT talk out of both sides of their mouth.

Susiejo

try and stick to the subject LOL

It gives a person credibility when they DONT talk out of both sides of their mouth.

Phoenix,

I think you have forgotten that this is the board with open discussion. The board where you get to control posts and posters is the True Healing one.

I just had an epiphany. While researching and mining for images of our favourite cartoons at work today, I recounted the storyline of MTV’s shortlived series The Maxx, the homeless outpatient schizophrenic who in his fantasy world is the very unperfect superhero The Maxx who saves his social worker’s alterego Julie the Jungle Queen from all the vicious monsters.

Dudes!!!

The Maxx is my alter ego!!!

A homeless outpatient schizophrenic - check him out!!!

(giggling)

oh susiegirl

youre the source of much merriment and amusement today.

If this is how your communication could go everyday I think we’d all have a little more fun and a lot less frustration and hurt feelings.

I’d like to support you in cultivating and nurturing this new found sense of humour.

You know Phoenix, if you kept all the bashing and bullying posts about Susiejo and Blitxen on this thread, you might could make the record on Careplace for the thread of greatest interest. It’s already at 565 -

http://www.careplace.com/forum/topic?id=6722&fs=20

There are certain things in life where quantity is more important than quality. Thats where we differ I think.

I’m here to give and get support.


I’m here to give and get support.


Phoenix, after all the the personal attacks you have made upon Susiejo and myself in this thread alone, forgive me if I point out that statement looks a little silly.

GD

Blitzen/Susiejo,

Of course it would because I dont give to or look for support from a bully. I challenge bullies, because as I’ve said, I wont be a silent bystander.

Youre a bully. I havent seen anyone disagree with me.

So dont expect to get support from me. That wont happen unless you come to learn bullying is not acceptable on a forum called CarePlace.

Really Phoenix,

And what makes you claim that I am a “bully”?

GD

You are the bully Phoenix. So what if your friends that join you in bullying are like you and do not see themselves as such.

And I have not asked nor wanted your support. I think the comment about that had to do with hypocrisy.

people will start to listen to the what of your posts and not the how
they’ll start taking you seriously
some will like you
they’ll bring a smile to your face
and you’ll bring a smile to theirs

its a lovely thing when you can be compassionate and considerate and
people want to be that back to you

its one of life’s sweet little pleasures

c’mon

try it Gaye

you can do it :smiley:

I think you can do it.

c’mon, you already have a cute sense of humour…dont let it go to waste
share it with everyone

Phoenix,

Maybe it is drugs that you are on, whatever it is, I’m concerned about you and pray that you will seek medical help.

I am going to edit this post Susiejo, cos, seeing your post I remembered, isn’t she bipolar or something?

If she is off her meds it won’t serve any purpose to challenge her behavior, so I’ll leave it till she looks more stable.

GD

ahhh, see?

there’s that cute sense of humour :slight_smile:

keep going Gaye

Phoenix,

I’m not kidding with you, either go take the meds, or quit washing them down with Shiraz please?

GD

GD
I only drink wine in good company. Alas, while my SuperHeroHumorous son is damn fine company he isnt yet old enough to be interested let alone legal to drink the Shiraz or the Meritage so its like most other nights tonight…alcohol free.

However, thank you for the kind consideration regarding my meds, I missed my morning drive coffee and ended up with an all-day headache but the Ibuprofen worked wonders.

Now…I have to confess…I am always in awe of people with fine senses of humour. I know humour when I hear it, but my brains not very skillful at coming up with it, so you have to believe me when I tell you…I’m really enjoying yours today.

And I’m sincere when I say…it really does become you :smiley:

please nurture it :slight_smile:

Who is D?